In Control

I've said it before, and I'll say it again because these words ring true to me everytime. The more I stand my ground, the more people prove me right for doing so. I won't explain it, but I'm sure if you were to do the same you'd figure it out :P

This Armani Exchange jacket in the pic (hard to see details) is the perfect in between jacket. It's a velvet with satin stripes going down the sleeves and stuff. I guess it would be the lovechild of a tuxedo jacket and a bomber jacket? I'm weird. Yes. I know. But this jacket? Love.

Expecting another Laurence Kazar vintage sequin jacket to be delivered soon :) Can't wait!

xo

Getting back on the horse....

... so to speak! Onto 2nd sem next week, and I'm ready for it :)

As much as it's nice to be the level-headed individual that I am, I don't like when I'm used as a mediator between 2 people who are experiencing technical difficulties. Even more so when I'm cool as a cucumber sitting here, minding my own beeswax! Don't get me wrong... I love to help those in need. I love to educate people with the lesser stresses of life and how to go about it. And I love love love to make people smile, grin, giggle, chuckle or pee their pants laughing (not literally... that's gross). How can I achieve these goals in my own life if other people want to be a Bitter Betty... or a Pity-Party Peter?! I say forget about those little things. We can all take care of these little things!! But look at the bigger picture, and is a frown really that fuckin nice to look at? No. I'm above that! Life's too short to complain about the little things... some people don't even have enough little things TO complain about.

Be grateful for the life you are living and the things you have. There are people with next to nothing who know how to live better.

End Rant.

Tommy Skirt

What a lovely mixed up week. Sun, rain, snow, clouds, mild, freezing.... But this skirt? I could think of spring and I'm warmed up in a second! I can't bear to look at depressing darks right now. I think if we all just dress like it's Spring, it comes faster...no?

Current thought... I should reorganize my closet and drawers. Don't get me wrong, I am already organized, be it by colour, style or item. I'm just so limited in closet space that it would be nicer to see more of the things I own. My clothing storage becomes this abyss, or black hole for all things clothing. Either that or I should downsize my wardrobe. Ummmmmm. No.

rain rain rain SUN

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It's been a ride, but I feel like the harder I work and try it really pays off :) I guess there's some truth to what "they" say, whoever "they" are. First sem of school is coming to an end, and on I go through the summer! I'm actually, seriously, genuinely, sincerely excited! Not sure how some people deal with a summer off and get back into it in the fall...

I'm so damn looking forward to some wonderful things, namely seeing the Black Keys in concert! That is by far a summer highlight indeed :D Of course that, and wearing pretty much anything in my closet. ANYTHING!

I'm already dusting off my hats ;)

xo

Bargain Leather!

Along with my fab leopard/tiger print lace up booties, I was dying to rock this skirt I got about a year ago from a thrift shop for 4 bucks! Real leather, kinda heavy, lined but smokin'!

Unfortunately I was gonna wear the skirt again, and the back zipper is starting to separate (which I tried to McGiver, but it didn't work..). I guess I'll actually hafto take it to be fixed, and even still the total cost of the skirt is still damn cheap! Aside from the fact that everything is so inexpensive, why do people have such reservations about used clothing? I mean, if you find good quality items all you hafto do is wash it! It takes time and patience to actually spend the time in one and find some good pieces and sometimes you'll be unsuccessful... and sometimes you find something awesome!

The weather is starting to really warm up and this means I can stop layering and walking around like a sausage. Can't wait to wear my oxfords!

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Green beer anyone?

equal.ity

There's no denying that Lady Gaga is a huge inspiration for many people, mainly her fans. While I like some of her songs, I don't consider myself a solid Gaga Fan or supporter. Upon hearing this song I thought the lyrics were fantastic and I must say I really get that love for every single one of us, despite our differences inside or out. It's an amazing message that I totally I hope gets carried out to the people who have their insecurities about others and even themselves. We were born the people we are, and we shouldn't change for anyone.

So anyways, this is my acoustic rendition! Enjoy :)

xox

2nd Guessing

Ever plan on something or start thinking, and almost immediately you start questioning yourself or try to talk yourself out of it?

Nobody wants to make a mistake, or even take a risk this days but to be honest its the ones who have who get so much more in life or to say.

I believe I'm a risk taker, but I also think I should go out on a limb a little more. I think I'm the only person who holds myself back from anything, and if there's something that I can change about myself it is just that.

I'm a go-getter, so imma go'N'get.

;)

(shoes:lechateau,scarf:f21)

Go away, Winter.

(shorts:fcuk,jacket:moroder(nastygal),shoes:aldo)

Too early for a bit of leg? Totally, but I'm dying for this winter wonderland to take a hike and warmth to roll in. Is my superintendent deliberately turning down the heat?! It's -15 degrees outside and I'd say about 0 inside. Not cool, lady!

I'm currently awaiting this Lawrence Kazar jacket from Ebay, and it's about the 2nd time this lady has had to send it to me since being returned to her. Either sender incompetence, or post office incompetence. I want my jacket! Unfortunately, no amount of kicking or screaming will get me such thing. Only patience.

Still waiting........

Girls Night.

blazer:hm,pants:gap,tank:victoria'ssecret

Not letting a bit of snowfall get in the way of a fun girl's night out! I still can't wait for warmer weather though... it's awfully constricting having to layer up on nights out grrr...

Sketched.

It can be tiresome to try on different outfits just to see what you can do with that shirt you've never really worn, those shorts with the tags still on, or those pair of harem pants that you just haven't had the right occasion to show off. But sometimes getting it on paper looks a whole lot different, and sometimes when laying down colour, it's an easier way to see what works and what doesn't. My sketch isn't necessarily for what I have in my closet, but something I want! A Laurence Kazar multicoloured sequined jacket. Laurence Kazar specialized mainly in womens clothing and his vintage pieces consist of mostly sequin and beading. The only way to show this detail is when I can show a picture first-hand (which I intend to do... soon!) Isn't it amazing how we can take a vintage piece, pair it with today's fashion and create to-die-for looks?

Spring.

shorts:zara,tights:pointzero,shoes:gojane,necklace:costablanca

Who doesn't love looking forward to florals, sunshine, colour and albeit tons of rain? How fair is that when you have 3 months left of winter in a place where snow actually sticks to the ground and your city becomes practically barren outside work hours?

Since I'm looking forward to the aforementioned warmer things, I can't help but put some Spring in my step style! I'll be honest, a grande of Starbucks Pike Place may have something to do with my feeling less chilly, too :)

Hope you all are keeping warm somehow!

xo

Inspired.

Anyone in fashion blogging has been on and is probably a fan of The Sartorialist. He is an amazing vision seeker of fashion and human form. He sees detail in the simplest of style, as well as picking up on trends, quality, fashion muses and all from everywhere in the world. You must see this to get a better idea.

So inspired!

Bold.

blazer:hm,jeans:U.P.,tshirt:f21,shoes:gojane

At the start of a new year we all look back at what we've accomplished in the past one; how we've learned, lived, loved and perhaps lost. In retrospect, all these things make for a stronger and bolder year ahead for myself and daughter. I have loved and lost with no regret. I'm sure we have all been in that situation before and it hurts. But loving and losing the same person over and over? It takes guts to get out of that and say I'm worth more than that, and that other person needs some serious mental assessments :) 2011 has already started off with a bit of the crazies, but I hope this makes way for my return to my blog and all other things me.

We can't forget who we are, or get lost in other people.

On other notes, going to school for business marketing is a huge leap from my creative days! I'm looking forward to exploring a new field as well as making new acquaintances :)

Happy 2011 Everyone!

'Tis the season...

I began this blog as an outlet for my inner fashion demons, to showcase personal style, affordable fashion and art/music. All this form of outlet became solely that, which I hadn't realized before. Whether 5 people read it or 1000, I really just want to rant. Be it fashion, be it this crazy world or the fact that I burnt my tongue on a scalding hot coffee... I just want to rant. Why? Because I don't care if you have a Platinum American Express or work 3 jobs to pay for your wardrobe or rent, I don't care if you care what I wore yesterday... point is we can all relate on some level or another.

On that note, here I am. The moment in question.

My rant?

As a student, mother, daughter, sister, lover and friend I have a world of support around me. Trés lucky for it to be so, too! It's tough to be a full-time student, unable to work (full-time, anyhow) and racking up a student loan that seems almost impossible to pay back come the time. How do people do it when there aren't any guarantees in life? I think having the support is the only fight I have against it all, for it gives me the confident energy that "Yes! I can do it!" attitude that people need to persevere. I believe I can do it, too!

But when all of a sudden, the clouds roll in and someone rains on your persevering parade and says, "But this will happen, what will you do? Oh, and this will happen, too... what will you do then?" What do I say to this negative energy? I'm not saying I want to ignore the possible obstacles to come. I'm saying, despite those obstacles, I know what I have to do. I cannot predict the future any more than you can, but there's no sense in being pessimistic about it.

I may not be at the same address in years from now, have the exact same interests or wear the same clothing... but I cannot change myself and if I'm an optimistic person by nature who chooses not to worry for every worry, then THAT'S ME!

Rant. Over.

.love .love .rachel .rachel .roy

Transformed.

To have this option is the epitome of function and fashion at it's best.

Not to be picky, though, I'd prefer a strapless option instead with the style of this dress. Otherwise, HOT!

Cow print? No thanks.

Cow print trench in tan and brown? Sure.

Convertible cow print trench in tan and brown with 2 optional cropped lengths? Yes, please!

I never thought I'd see a combo like this look chic, but I reeeeeaaalllly want it!

Transitioned.

So how do we make it from warm, to cool, to cold, to freezing? Shearling and leather perhaps.

This design with the immensely oversized collar is a winner.

Not a fan of shearling and once again... WANT!

Promenade.

You can usually foresee the kinds of styles that come back around during the Fall/Winter seasons. I'm quite pleased with these ones that are simply gorgeous!

Click to shop Rachel Rachel Roy

SO SU-SHI ME!

What's so great to do on a free evening with a great friend? Eat sushi! Among various other things, of course (including perusing and ultimately giving into the makeup section at Shopper's Drugmart *grrrrr!).

Some things I've noticed eating at many a sushi joints in my lifetime thus far:

1. Soy Sauce dishes should be slightly bigger and/or deeper to avoid spillage or sprayage after droppage.

2. When things like "Dragon Roll" or "Spider Roll" are on the menu, and furthermore arrive looking just like such... expect someone to play with their food. It's almost provoking it, c'mon!

3. Do NOT wear white. If you do, you are either a) brave b) dumb c) both d) a profesh on lunch e) hate that shirt.. or f) wearing someone else's shirt.

4. "All You Can Eat" doesn't mean you should do that. You risk losing all self respect and confidence upon exiting those doors. Sad but true.

5. Red Bean is officially the most underrated and misunderstood ice cream flavours I've come across in my life. No, it's NOT a can of beans dumped onto plain ice cream... you'd hafto be a retárd to consider that one.

6. Be nice to me, or I'll secretly switch that delicious Green Tea scoop with a wad of wasabi without your knowing. Teehee!

P.S. I'm not wearing white. It's peach. Sooooo doesn't count!

I am the walrus, coo coo kachoo!

so long 9 to 5

As Fall slowly beings to rear it's ugly pretty head, my time working 9-5 is coming to an end and back to the books I go! Not only am I looking forward to it (education rocks!), but I'm going to bring my cam with me and I'll have some more free time to explore my interests. I'm excited to share this on my blog along with anything else I may discover along the way. To be honest, I'd rather be working away at my career right now and loving every minute... but it's a process and the ride is sure to be fun!

Like a Goddess

So, lucky me I get to end my summer off nicely with a trip to Austin, Texas for my cousin's Bat Mitzvah. Unlucky me? I'm not interested in the dressed I have hanging in my closet... not to mention it's boiling hot there this time of year (which ultimately becomes my own sales pitch to myself). My find? A One Shouldered Goddess Dress on the cheap from F21. It's loose yet flattering at the same time, feminine and fitting. The mauve colour is so beautiful. I'll most likely pair it with my nude heels.

Hope everyone is making the most of these next couple weeks! xo

Summer lovin...

(shirt:urbanplanet,tank:ardene,headband:f21)

...happened so fast. How can it almost be over already? Is it just me, or is there a slight sense of Fall in the night air now? As much as I'm a summer person at heart and could probably move down south without blinking, I must say Fall is a great time of the year. Not because my birthday just so happens to be during the season, but esthetically its probably the most gorgeous one. The natural colours that mother nature itself, the coolness and breezes of the outdoors contrasted by warm indoors, the smell of herbs and spices, cinnamon and hot cocoa, pumpkin pie and potpourri and not to mention fall fashion. Before we get into that, though, I still want to enjoy what is left of this crazy summer of love.

iamsupercarla featurette

Thanks to iamsupercarla for featuring my look as part of her corporate chic post on her blog! Dig all of those looks and totally agree on strict office dress codes. People need to live a little and either be imaginative or hire a stylist. You can still adhere to a strict dress code and be fashionable, too... not to mention, to hell with seasonal pieces and colours. Dress for yourself, the occasion and more importantly, the weather.